"Declutter Your Life: Creating Space for What Truly Matters"

If you’re like me, you’ve experienced moments of unfulfillment—a yearning for something more, paired with a growing disdain for the things that take up space in your life and head. We often talk about decluttering and organizing our physical spaces, but rarely do we discuss the profound impact of decluttering our relationships, jobs, subscriptions, and more.
Yes, I said subscriptions. Too many auto-payments are quietly robbing us of what we truly want in life. Maybe we don’t even remember what half the subscriptions are for, but we do know someone is pulling money from our account. That nagging awareness takes up mental space—space that could be better used for new ventures and meaningful pursuits.
I get it—there are some things and people we can’t fully cut ties with. But we can make sure the time and energy we invest align with the value they bring. If something isn’t adding meaningful value, why are we letting it take up so much room in our lives?
The art of letting go and creating space isn’t easy. It takes time and intentionality because many of us link busy schedules, material possessions, or specific kinds of relationships with happiness and worth. But when we dig deeper, we often find that the external clutter we cling to is a substitute for addressing what we’re truly searching for: purpose, fulfillment, and connection.
When we make space for the things that add maximum value, it’s like sending a mental invitation to the universe, signaling that we’re ready for what’s next.
Here are a few questions to help you assess the clutter that may be preventing the entrance of something or someone of the highest value in your life:

Relationships

• How often do I worry about forgetting birthdays or special occasions?
• Have I ever dreaded attending a friend's event, wishing instead to stay cozy in bed?
• Do I find myself sitting on the phone, listening to complaints, and secretly wanting to hang up?
• Does this relationship feel like an obligation or a choice?
• Does this person align with or support my goals and dreams?
• After spending time with this person, do I feel better or drained?

Obligations

• Am I constantly feeling tired?
• Do I have time and energy to do the things I truly enjoy?
• When was the last time I had genuine downtime?
• Does doing this bring me happiness or fulfillment?
• Am I being overworked, taken advantage of, or undervalued?

Things

• When was the last time I used or wore this?
• Could someone else benefit from this more than I currently do?
• When I look at this space, does it make me feel proud or overwhelmed?
• Why do I own this, or why do I feel the need to buy it?

Stay Well,

Frankie Alisha